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Now I'm in my 50s, young men want to date me: Welcome to the world of WHIPS
To me they look old. What does he get out of it? We have been dating for 7 years. Find someone you love — and take their breath away.
I have met maybe 30% of them. This is how I should feel, but I have a long way to go...
And Roy, I have to say that if you can mix a sexual edge with your wit and sweetness you'll have cougars fighting each other to eat you alive. What a crock of horse shit. You have convinced appx. My experience in life is helpful to her in terms of making her aware of the need for judgment and self-protection in the world. Oddly, with her being 51, I felt like I was married to a 10 year old. I wish he would do more than stare.
24 year old woman dating 18 year old man - I've dated much older women.
A friend of mine called me earlier. I can feel her. The chemistry is off the charts. We talk and we totally understand one another. I understand her, she understands me. How do I get her to want to be with me? The second you go into salesman mode when you meet somebody is the second you give any and all power away. A 30-year-old woman has way too much going on in her life, way too many experiences. She probably wants a family. Life is about the moment. It can be something that can just be a week or two or three or a month or four months or a year. Everybody in life is a messenger for you. People are there to teach you things that you can learn from. What do I do? But why deny a connection? Why deny something where you can both grow as people? David Wow, As moust of you know, I went through this experience, and had all these same feelings, and questions, when I went out with a 24 year old. And, I can tell you from experience, it was one of the greatest events of my life. I certainly took FULL damn, advantage of it too! It was Full of excitement, adventure, anticipation, learning, SEX, and a sense of pride, having a hottie on my arm, that was off the charts. Inevitably, it had to end lasted a full year , due the the reasons you state, but I still cherish the times we had together as does she, we still remain friends and will NEVER be sorry for having the experience. If you can get it, definately DO IT!! Bro, I know exactly what you are talking about. My first boyfriend was 24 years older than me. I was 20; he was 44, but didn't look or act his age in a good way. I fell hard and fast. He didn't consider himself to be a good looking guy in the traditional sense, but I thought he was adorable, sexy, extremely funny we're talking incredible humor, creativity and talent , kind, sincere, an exceptional lover, had tons of friends and he knew how to treat women. This was a truly special human in so many ways. We knew it wasn't meant to last but he remained a good friend and passed away of cancer at the age of 51. After my late father, I definitely consider him the most important, most special man I've ever known. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him it took me a VERY long time to get over his passing and to accept that he's no longer here on earth, although still with me very much in spirit. Yes, when certain people come into your life, even if briefly, IT IS A GIFT. I am forever grateful that Joe entered my life and was able to share a part of his with mine. Kirk, You miss the whole point of the entire blog!! It is meant to be a great experience between two people who are attracted to each other. And if you don't think, younger women are attracted to good looking, strong, powerful, confident older men, you are living on another planet. And it is NOT just to get at the man's money. Most of my ladies have bought expensive presents, gifts, and done what they can, to show their appreciation, and love for me that cannot be faked. I have had numerous young women, and every one of them had a great time, and never regretted being with me, and I always try to remain friends, and we both treasure our memories, even long after the relationship has run it's course. I still get girls that I consider too young, that would love to go out with me, constantly. I guess when younger women constantly see you with younger mates, they wait their turn to live the experience. I live a very exciting life, full of adventure and experiences, that they want to be a part of. They will never get the chances to travel, ride horse, Harley's, go to all types of events, etc, that I can provide, with a young man, starting out, their age. This is the way it is, has been, and will always be! Sorry to burst your bubble... Hi there, this in response to Cowboy Bob. He is absolutly right! Us women do care for older men. Granted the older we get I'm 39 years old. We don't quite as of age gap, because as we get older, they are even looking older. My husband of 13 years is 8yr. I have recently meet someone that is only 8 years older then me, however I would say he looks 5 year older then his current age 48yrs old , and I look about 34 years old. With that being said, I don't give a heck, because he is so kind, has a rocken fit body, who works out regulary. Treats be like a queen, and we happen to live in the same town. He loves to give me full body messages, and foot massages and I don't even have to ask, he just loves to give me. An dlet me tell you the bedroom seen is absolutly amazing, and hot! He also loves to travel and not sit around... Not to mention he is very smart and owns his own sucessful business! What is also nice about him being older, he doesn't care about why I got divorced, or try to ask about past relationships, where guys my age are so judgemental! Heck I was layed off from my job, and though he cares about me, he hasen't judged me not even for a minute that I have been layed off! And no I do not ask him to pay my bills... Ii am responsible for my own house hold and don't ask for a handout. But yes, mature men know what they want and know how to treat a lady! Am I the only one with a major problem with old men going out, or having sex with significantly younger women? In the gym a while back I met a lady-friend I haven't seen in a while. She still likes pop culture, loves cowboy boots and having comically big hair. She's seeing an old dude. I was disappointed in her for doing it. Why a young woman would go out with anyone who can be their father defeats me. You're not the only one. That the older man has more life experience and should have more wisdom is precisely why they shouldn't be preying on naive, fresh-faced innocents who have their whole adult lives ahead of them. It's a matter of decency, integrity, valor, honor that these men seem to be woefully lacking. To me, that is a predjudice, no different than saying, you don't think orientals should date White men, or Indian's. What harm can come from an arrangement like this? Are you jelous that the younger women prefer a more mature, man, who has much more to offer her, in EVERY way, than a young man, just starting out? When you get to be 40 or 50, I hope I will still be alive , I would like to hear your perception of this then. Bob, you are nuts if you think that the typical 25-year-old woman prefers a man in his 40s or 50s to a man closer to her own age who is maybe in his late 20s. I think that a relationship can work even if the woman is 10 years younger than the man, particularly if the man looks young for his age. However, if the man is much older, it is doomed to fail. Mark, Your argument makes no sense. How do you define significantly from insignificantly? That's like a prejudice person saying a black man can go out with a brunette but not a lighter skinned blond... Where is the cutoff? I stand by my original accusation without hesitation. Manny, I like you! You remind me of my son. Belligerent, impatient, ignorant, and having a delusional mindset. I envy that you have so much to learn and experience. We actually, would have a blast going out. You would learn so much that you are currently naive' about. Unfortunately, if there were two 25 year old hotties, I would of course have choice, and you would be confounded by this oddity. Keep studying, and learning, but realize that women don't care about your mental capacity. They want a man that is fit, knows how to lead, tells them what they want and takes command. However, I would suggest hitting the gym, before I try to hook you up with the hotty, I will get you. Unfortunately, women are somewhat shallow like most men and have physical requirements, as well as leadership and mental requirements. Best of look, and take care. I can send you a great workout program, that will have you fit and buff in no time. Manny, The immediacy of your response shows the hostility of your mindset. You could be dead tonight, or tomorrow, and I will go on living another 50 years! So, your idle, ridiculous,abase, and aggravate, theats are meaningless and show your jealousy and immaturity. Instead of being belligerent, rebellious, and showing your immaturity, why not embrace my experience, learn from it, and try to emulate my experiences? You have near zero chance of reaching my goals, and accomplishments,due to your mindset and limited belief system and physical attributes, I can still currently in my present state easily attract women , over you, at my current physical appearance, status, experience, and confidence level, so why not learn from me, instead of spewing hostility and jealousy toward me. Jealousy and antagomism, will get you no where, when you could be benefitting from my tutalidge, experience, and advice. If you are lucky, you may get to enjoy the company of many dozens of women, get to know the pride and reality, of truly being able to approach, date, and sleep with as many women as you please, and have them respect you and look up to you as a real man, which they rarely find in the real world, that they have to exist in. So many talkers, so few real men who actually DO!! You are a talker, and will never know what it is like to DO!! Bob, I will walking on this Earth far longer than even your body is decayed and 6 feet under. I'm not jealous of you since the train stops sooner for you, okay? You're hostile to young men because you're at the end of the line, Bud! Beautiful women are my friends, Bob. I don't acquire them. You're all about the ego old man. You're not the type to be arguing about philosophy so don't give me any bull about a non sequiter. My point of view speak for themselves and they are 100% true. Young women do not want to be with you Bob. And I will tell any young women friend I have that are seeing very old men to get real. You have no defense against my argument and it is obvious, that you are floundering in your response. One day, you will be in a position toacquire a beautiful girl, who will make your life a paradise, and be able to enjoy the fruits of such a relationship. In the mean time, take what you can get... Bob, whatever floats your boat. If a young woman wants to be with you again thats your business. My opinion in the matter of other peoples relationship do not matter. While its true an older man has had more experience and more time on Earth to accomplish more things than a younger guy would have, I don't think there's an argument to say that she'd prefer to be with someone who complements her goals. I think eventually the women with older men find men the same age as theirs to be with. I feel that old men who continually seek out younger women are not good for these women. These women need to find stability but they're always looking for daddy. Major issues, you know. They also need to understand that the men in their age are not jerks or assholes, but I'm sure by comparison to you that thats not a problem. If I ever find myself looking for another relationship in my 40s or 50s, I hope that I respect enough my own mortality and connectedness to my friends and community that another woman can fit in that world. A significantly younger woman will not fit well as a wife in that world neither would I in hers. My friends will most likely be my age and it would be completely awkward for everyone trying to bring in twenty year old bushy-tailed minx into a geriatric party. So the answer is no. I would want someone to complement me. I dated a gal who was 17 years younger than me. As far as Huge Hefner, most of them girls are there to enhance their careers, maybe get on a reality series, or meet famous people whom they might be interested in down the road. I remember Hef's old girlfriend Holly Madison, one of his favorites, I remember hearing about how she wanted to get married and have kids, what was she doing with Hef who wanted neither of those things? Well of course eventually they broke up. I used to have the same view as Manny. When my father dated a much younger women after my mom passed away. I was so disappointed in him. I didn't like her and made sure she knew my feelings about the whole situation. Until one day, I watched my father playing with his grandchildren. He was happy and he told me he went back to playing golf. I notice he started living life again. It was short live romance. Now I thank her from bringing my dad back to the living. After my separation and divorce, I met a gentleman who was 23 yrs older than me. We dated for two years. He was good to me and made me feel good to be a woman. I was on the flipside of this. I've dated much older women. I dated a woman who was 17 years older than me. She was a bona fide cougar. I went into it knowing that it wouldn't last forever. We were both moving away in a few months so we decided to have fun together. I learned a lot from her. And I had ridiculous sex. I don't think these things can last forever, but they can certainly enrich your life. I know I'm way better off for having had that experience. It's funny that just as we started talking about this, I started talking to a girl 5 years younger than me or for reference, nearly 22% younger than me. She's hot, and I'm sure I'd enjoy getting her clothes off, but I just don't know. I've had better conversations with a block of wood. Blocks of wood don't normally have boobs like that though... I hope that I am fortunate enough to live to see the day that I am a silver fox. Dan, I'm at a point where I could benefit greatly from spending time with older women. How did you meet these older women you've dated? I know that being open and present in any moment is key to making good things happen for me, I'm just curious how it happened for you. Roy, I met them at work, school, and through friends. You could also go to a cougar bar. It's no different from how I meet anyone. And I flirted fearlessly with them. Lots of teasing, eye contact and naughty smiles. Nothing really different than how you flirt with women your own age. The only difference I've found is that there's less games with older women. This also means they're going to test you very quickly about your intentions. If they think you're not serious about being their boy toy they'll lose interest very quickly. It's not that much different from all women except that mature women know EXACTLY how to use their sexuality and you need to be able to hang in their with it and be fearless. And Roy, I have to say that if you can mix a sexual edge with your wit and sweetness you'll have cougars fighting each other to eat you alive. In the best way possible. That sentence is incomprehensible. Come from a place of love, man. My best conversations come when I'm too drunk to have the conversations I enjoy. The worst ones are when people are drunker than me. Very few people can hold a conversation with me sober, not much chance for drunken fools. I want an older woman who's going to buy me a car. I remember you you were in the same nursing home as me brockle bank lodge Im so glad i caught up with you bud. The stories you use to tell in the nursing home had us all in stitches. I hope your doing good bud and we hope your alzheimers is not too bad these days. God bless from all at Brockle Bank Lodge nursing home. Zack That is grammatically correct sentence. I thought you were in College? Maybe you are a 10 year old pretending to be...? If you can't get them now, how the hell are you when you are my age? PS And I say this to you from a place of love, trying to help you become a real man, and learn how to find yourself a woman. I said incomprehensible not grammatically incorrect. When you use 40 adjectives in one sentence, nobody will have any clue what you're saying. I never said I was getting drunk. I'm probably one of the healthier people here. I'm choosing my own path in life. My goals in the next 24 hours are more complicated than what I already want to think about, let alone my goals in a week, month, or year, so why would I think about 29 years ahead? I'm going to be such a different person then; my life has gone through so much growth and change I don't recognize myself from a month ago. So taking out girls who are 24 when I am 50 is of little concern to me. I'm focusing on the now, but thanks for looking out. You're not so bad when you're keeping your fantasy cowboy nonsense out of the conversation. Becoming a real man won't help me find a woman, currently, but energy to look will. It can be something that can just be a week or two or three or a month or four months or a year. I rarely get past date two or three with a girl, and when it ends I tend to go into a dark place because I feel rejected. For instance, recently I went on two dates with a girl and when it came time to set up date 3, she started acting all weird and it was obvious to me that she was done. I have been walking around feeling negative about it because I don't understand where she is coming from, but the fact is that I had a good time getting to know her a little bit and should be thankful for the experience. This is how I should feel, but I have a long way to go... It can be something that can just be a week or two or three or a month or four months or a year. I rarely get past date two or three with a girl, and when it ends I tend to go into a dark place because I feel rejected. For instance, recently I went on two dates with a girl and when it came time to set up date 3, she started acting all weird and it was obvious to me that she was done. I have been walking around feeling negative about it because I don't understand where she is coming from, but the fact is that I had a good time getting to know her a little bit and should be thankful for the experience. This is how I should feel, but I have a long way to go. Ryan Let's put it this way, there are girls out there who want to date you and accept you for who you are. Being natural doesn't mean you create a new you, being natural is bringing out the real you. It sounds like to me you really liked this last girl that you dated. So you were confused on why she didn't feel connected and then reminded yourself of a pattern in your dating life, doubts creep into your mind. What do you do when you go out on dates with these girls? Know what you are looking for in a girl, qualify her, avoid selling yourself, get to know her and share a part of you with her. Have fun with her rather than exchanging resumes on a date. Eventually you will find that girl who would click with you beyond your wildest dreams. You will tell yourself, this was worth the wait! It can be something that can just be a week or two or three or a month or four months or a year. Mike, thanks for your reply. To answer your question, it really depends on the girl. Sometimes, we'll just meet for drinks. Other times, if I know a little about her and we have some kind of rapport, I'll personalize it. For instance, one girl told me her favorite thing in the world to do is play piano, but she rarely gets to play because she doesn't have access to one, so I rented a rehearsal space with a piano in it. We met at a wine bar then we went over to this rehearsal studio. She taught me a few chords so we could play a duet. She said it was one of the best dates she had ever been on. Several days later when I asked her out again, she declined. She said she didn't feel a connection. I was surprised because I did feel a connection. This happens to me a lot. And, no, she's gone. I found out she had a little thug boyfriend the whole time,, so I don't know what was up with that. She moved out a while ago, anyway. Btw,, the Camaro is all I have now. The MINI blew the transmission out of it this morning. Blew a hole in the side of it,, oil went everywhere. Gonna be a while till I get that one fixed. That was my game changer. It totally opened me up to the world. I could feel my own sexual power a women's sexual power and I could see how they were interacting. I still listen to it because I'm always finding new things in it that I didn't hear before. It will unleash your sexual power. I guarantee that you'll love it and that it will really open your eyes. You'll understand what I mean when you read it. Lastly, check out the the book Sex God Method by Daniel Rose. It's a great book that will shove you out of your comfort zone. You'll be wielding your sexual power in no time with these. David's right as usual. The age difference will become a factor later, and also you can't make someone like you and shouldn't want to. When a guy pushes too hard to make me like him it pushes me away instead. It's always been that either we click or we don't. And with the age difference, when there's a whole generation gap between you then sooner or later one or both of you tire of it. If both of you are having fun, then just enjoy the time you have together! Dating is like a Tootsie Roll Lollipop, you can either take a few licks then go straight for the middle, or eat the lollipop one lick at a time. I want to make myself into skeletal anorexic bones because that's what guys around here are into I don't think that I should ever talk to any guy younger than me much less hit on them ever again. I must creep them the f out. A 19 year old also hit on me but I should ignore him now and not just date for resumes but also exact age. THE SAME THING at least in your mind and lusting after the 19 year old by thinking the same thing the 60 year old thought about you. What a crock of horse shit! The older man probably would have adored you, treated you like a princess, and you would have had the time of your life, with experiences, you NEVER will with a young guy, or even one your exact age as you put it What's wrong with at least giving it a try, instead of being repulsed and ashamed? Hell, try them both. See what an older guy is like, AND go out with the 19 year old if all you want is some sex and to pay his way. He will give you plenty of that, but don't expect to be treated like you will, by an older guy, who will be true to you, refuse to let you pay for anything, and treat you like you will not believe. I'm 37 and I have a redneck renting a house next door. He has a 25 years old girlfriend with a 16 months old and one on the way. How sick and pathetic!! I look 25 and he thought I was the same age as her. I told Sean my husband that if I was 25; you won't even have me at hello. I would only be with you if I was looking for stability or a sugar daddy. The redneck is just that to this girl. He bought her a car, she doesn't have to work, and I won't be surprised if she has a GED or just a high school education. We caught him at 11 p. I can't wait for them to move out. Yes, and I owe none of you old age people no apology. I am an attractive, 56 yr old woman, and my husband is a very good looking and fit 70 yr old Before we met 3 yrs ago , he was taking out girls from 18 to 25 The problem with this is that my husband looks and acts like he has money; he has no money, no assests, and is still fully supporting 2 teenage boys. Does an 18 yr old girl really know about sex? An older man, if he does not have money, does not get a much younger chick, period! And what do you talk about Bob??? Or it must just be your extremely fragil and insecure ego that makes you keep going after those poor young girls! It´s all about you using women for your sex satisfaction, really sick A 50 year old close friend recently told me he's dating a 25 year old. He was so proud that he could attract a significantly younger woman I could not tell him how I really felt about the situation. I have always been hit on by older men and younger men alike. Women talk to other women candidly about these situations and usually this type of relationship is caused by a young woman who looks for security with daddy issues and the man is an old pervert. My last fling I was involve with someone 10 years younger. When we met I had no idea he was so young. He was intelligent, fun and great in bed. When I found out his age I immediately ended the relationship. I felt it could not be something with a future becasue we are in very different places in our lives. I did not want to make him grow up and have to commit to me when I was ready to meet my life partner. I believe older men do not come to this sensible realization because they are A looking for a good time B indulging their aging ego. I am trying to be more open minded about my friends current relationship which is why I am here. However it is slightly disturbing that when he showed me a picture of this girl she looks like me. After our conversation about his new fling I am avoiding him because I'm grossed out. On a side note this would all sound like a rediculous love triangle if it were not for the fact that I am newly married to a soulful young man my own age. I am a 29-year-old attractive female. I recently started dating a 61-year-old man. This is my first time dating someone so much older than myself. He is very handsome, intelligent, and fit. He honestly does not look a day over 50 because he exercises with a personal trainer weekly and takes care of himself. However, I come from a wealthy family and I am also well-educated. I actually like him a lot and I am very physically attracted to him. The money is nice because it allows us to do extravagant things, but like I said, I really like him as a person. I know it's going to be tough to make this last, but where there is a will, there is a way. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 44. Im in the same situation as you. I really like him and things a along so are going so well. I believe every situation is different so you can't judge any relationship. We get along so well. He's taught me alot of things and Ive introduced him to alot of fun experiences. He's also very successful so we travel all over the country every month enjoying our time together. We both really are falling head over heels for each other. I can tell him anything. What I really hate though is when we are out and we get stares and inapporiate comments, but Im getting use to it. It doesn't bother me as much as it use to. I completely disagree with all of that. I think it is unfair and wrong to start any kind of relationship with a closed door. If both parts are not in it for the long haul I would rather not start. I am 23 and I want a serious relationship with an older man. My boyfriend of 9 months is 49 and I We have an Amazing relationship. I have so much fun just running errands with him. I cant stand running errands with most people. Even girlfriends and especially family. We just really click. Just because Im youngest Does not mean I am not experienced and I know exactly what I want. I expect to be fully respected. Some people are a little looser I guess We are all different. I agree with rene. Plus about the nursing home comment in the original post. I would never put anyone I love in there. I am an athletic, blonde, 5ft '3 twenty year old woman. I am currently in a situation where a 44 year man and I have a secret relationship and it is at the point where I am trying to decide what I want to do. There is 24 years between us. I see him less and less at the moment because I am trying to decide what I want. He is a partner at the law firm that I worked at for two years after high school. We never worked in the same team and I did not work directly for him, but we developed a normal office friendship through work functions and our local gym. I moved to another law firm in January of this year, however, I continued attending classes at our gym and we would end up in the carpark for at least half an hour after class just chatting about work and talking about my study plans and family etc. We were both always extremely attracted to each other, we just didn't act on it until one night when he dropped me home after a night out with gym friends. We have continued to have a secret relationship for the past few months. We spend hours on end talking and discussing ideas, the world and the law. We have developed a relationship on a level much higher than sexual. We both come from working class families and so it is not a case of spending lots of money and showering me in gifts. In fact, I'm not sure I would let him. He is very wealthy, but money is not even a part of the equation. Anyway, we have this incredible connection and it is truly amazing. However, it is very secret and I am not sure I am ready to go public. He is two years divorced and has three children whom he has part time. The youngest is 5 and the eldest is 11. The children part of the equation is a pretty massive part. He wants us to be a couple and go on holidays together and have experiences together. He wants me for the long run. He wants to marry me and have my children. I am in New Zealand and the city that we live in is an old boys club. All of the businessman know each other and gossip spreads. If we become official to our friends and family it will be inevitable that our colleagues will find out. I'm sure that at his firm, people will question his integrity and at my firm, I am afraid that people will lack respect for me and treat me differently. I also think my friends at his firm will react badly. All in all I think I am afraid of everyone's reactions. There are many experiences for me to have at my age and so I am also hesitant because I will be involved in not only his life, but inevitably his children's lives. What he thinks is that we are soul mates. I think what I think from reading this is that perhaps we are just two people who are connected and we should take on this experience, however, perhaps it will be one that is only expected to live until it is over for whatever that reason may be. He wants me for life, I think I want the experience, but it is unrealistic for me to make such a commitment. I am going to study full time next year in the law and afterwards I will probably work a couple of years before going overseas, but I can't have the best of both worlds. He is here to stay. The fact of the matter is that no one will be hurt if we do come together. There are affairs going on or office scandal. We developed this when I left his company, I was the one that let my feelings known and so no one should think that he is taking advantage of me. I am very mature for my age and I am in no way naive in this situation. There will be a time that people will find it hard to understand, but I am sure that time will pass. I am not even used to the situation myself. We went away for a weekend recently and at a gift shop he was looking for gifts for his children. I felt embarrassed when in front of the shop assistant who was his age he asked me what I thought of the gifts. I also felt like people were looking at us all the time. I felt awkward around the hotel manager who showed us to our room too. Perhaps I will get used to it? It is not that I am embarrassed of him, that is definitely not the case. He is a powerful, successful and attractive man who is determined and genuine. He is the most incredible person I have ever met and I cannot begin to describe him. My insecurities lie with what others will think, say and do. The thing is that I want to be able to just have no care in the world for what anyone else thinks. If I had an attitude like that I suppose I would be with him right now. He makes me feel like I am a supermodel and an intellect. Both women and men should feel like this when they are with their partners. I know I would be happy, I suppose I am just afraid of the what ifs. What are your thoughts? Should I go full speed ahead? Go overseas,enjoy it,have fun,kiss all the boys and when your back home and the honeymoon is over it is time to stop or go girl! I did it one day married the older guy with lots of money and the whoole package,but i divorced him after 10 yrs,he became obsesive and jeaulosy about everything and bla bla bla......... Do not forget:women last forever and man till they can 55-66yrs Now i'm a Cougart! One correction: I think you meant virile, not viral. Hope the guy isn't telling women he's viral to attract them... I'm a 28-year-old woman dating a 50-year-old man, and it's wonderful. One way or another, we WILL eventually part - it's a fact of life. But life is short, and we like each other NOW, so let's have a great time together. I haven't dated a much older man before; give it a shot. I've had more fun in the past month with this guy than I have in the past two years with others in my age demographic. Older guys: tell her how you feel. Life is short, and it's YOURS; enjoy it. I AM NOW 36 YEARS OLD WOMAN. LAST 18 YEARS I MARRIED TO A OLD MAN OF AGE OF 44 AT THAT TIME. NOW HE IS 61 OF AGE.. I AM THE SECOND WIFE OF MY HUSBAND. MY HUSBAND IS VERY SEXY PERSON.. WITH IN 1 YEAR I AM MOTHER OF A DAUGHTER.. AND NOW I AM MOTHER OF 5 DAUGHTERS.. MY FIRST DAUGHTER IS 15 NOW.. MY HUSBAND'S FIRST WIFE HAS 1 DAUGHTER ONLY. NOW SHE IS 30 AND MARRIED... WE ARE ALL NOW JOINTLY LIVES.. MY HUSBAND SEX WITH BOTH ME AND HIS FIRST WIFE IN ONE BED BY ONE BY ONE. NOW HE IS USED VIGRA AND HE IS SATISFIED BOTH OF US IN EVERY NIGHT. NOW I FEEL HE IS NOT AGE OF 61 HE IS JUST 31.. SO MAN NEVER OLD.. Hi I am 39 years old and just came out of the 6 months relationship with 56 years old man. Can you give me a little advice. He was supposed to outlive me instead he died of a rare disease that no one ever heard of in 2weeks. He was not sick. We had a vibrant life. I am desparately unhappy. I need this kind of mam in my life still. WHAT CAN I DO at this age? People my age are Old. Want to dance but dont have anyone to go with. Dance studios dont work for me - tried. Thanx so much Whether you are in a relationship with a partner who is either younger or older to you, it is very likely that there might be conflicts due to some or the other reasons. This holds true even for the couples where both partners are approximately of same age and those with less age gap between them. But, this does not mean that it is end. You can easily overcome these problems and start with your relationship a new. I met my husband when i was 18 he was 44, now he is 46 and im 20, i love everything about him, he makes me happy but yes sometimes i would like for him to have more energy for us to be intimate but the times when we get to do it oh my!! Its great, he has shown me many things that i hadnt experinced. We have a baby girl and he is a great father and everything, i plan to be with him forever. It is definitely tough trying to sustain a long term relationship with am older man. I was 23 when my husband and I met and he was 41. We are now 7yrs in and everyday has been a struggle after the honeymoon phase was over. We dont have any children together but we seem to hang on. For better of worse I guess.... At a young looking 44 most folks guess I'm early 30's at most, prob due to exercise and genetics etc. Its astonishing to me how many women in their mid to late twenties that are married and having children with men 40 to 45 avg. I was with a guy for 3 years, he always told me he loved me and that we wouldn't break up because if you love someone you make it work. We could never work out a time when we were both free and just a couple days ago he said we should just be friends. I know he dont me love anymore. When we were dating he said to everyone that I was his girlfriend and introduced me, told his friends he really liked me and told me he loved me, I wanted to be with him again but I never knew what to do. I tried for a long time with other spell casters to get him back but dr. I don't see a lot of younger women with older men in Sydney Australia where I live. I think I definitely better start looking in the USA... USA women certainly seem to have a better and more open attitude to older men than Aussie women do thats for sure! I live in a different state from my family! I really don't discuss my relationship with them. But i don't think my mom is happy about. He is older than her. My dad doesnt even know about. My ask why so old? She knows that have always like older man but not this older. Both sister say thats really old. My daughter is 16 she really doesnt like it she makes joke and say how's grandpa my son liked him but he is only 2. I'm 31 and I been dating this awesome guy who is 62. We have been dating for 7 years. We had to grow together and each day gets better we have so much fun together. The most important thing we have is a relationship thats loyal. We laugh alot yes hes the energizer bunny. Modt of all we have love and I will love him forever will chair and all.. Weve been together for almost 9yrs. Her mom is 2yrs older than me and her dad 4yrs. I must admit they dont look well taken care of compared to me. To me they look old. Well, the family loves me for who I am. I dont have any riches at all... My girlfriend and I go everywhere together. We are now making plansto get married. I feel she earned her stripes. If her intentions were dlshonest, she would have taken off by now. I love her deeply and she loves me deeply. I see her as my better half and not as a 29yr old. She sees me as the love of her life and not as a 57yr old, We have mutual friends and make ni mistake, we have our differences.. Many younger men and older women have died nd we are still together. In the end, age is not a factor if love is primary. It probably wont be the same when u look at stats, but im happy that I fall in that small % group for whom it works. Nothing is for sure so why judge people with huge age differences. The same gies for healthy people that dies over the festive season by car accidents, drownings, armed robberies but you find people living with the HIV virus to live longer. Makes you think doesnt it? I am 63 years old and I have a 34 year old girlfriend. We have been seeing each other for 8 years now. At first it was sex 3 or 4 times a week. Now we have a weekly meeting and hours of sex and fun. There is no illusion of marriage or living together we just enjoy each other and our relationship just as it is. We both have families and responsibilities out side of our relationship. But the love we share for each other is real and intense. The age difference never comes up. We just enjoy each other and help each other sexually, emotionally, and financially. U want hear a good story.. When i was 26 i fell in love with a man of 51, we had a relationship for a few years and i still love him : i really wanted to be with him for the rest of our lives, i still cry everyday when i start thinking about us... We get on so well it's scary. It's only been two weeks and we have both acknowledged that we have feelings for each other. Then out of the blue she texts me to say she can't do it anymore because the love of her life is another guy. She has been in an on and off relationship with him for 6 years and now he is 66 years old. I'm gutted, I really thought we could make something of this. What are the chances that she will ever get tired of her relationship with this olde man?
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And Roy, I have to say that if you can mix a sexual edge with your wit and sweetness you'll have cougars fighting each other to eat you alive. What a crock of horse shit. You have convinced appx. My experience in life is helpful to her in terms of making her aware of the need for judgment and self-protection in the world. Oddly, with her being 51, I felt like I was married to a 10 year old. I wish he would do more than stare. International dating sites over 50 australia Hjemmelavede julegaver børn Chris pratt dating who